The Elusive Dick Podcast

In this episode of The Elusive Dick, Marjorie and Barbara are joined once again by fan-favorite guest Irina for an unfiltered catch-up on the latest twists in their dating lives. From unforgettable new characters to the season's official pen pal awards and the prize for the weirdest dating experience yet, the ladies recap the highs, the lows, and everything in between that makes modern dating both hilarious and unpredictable.
 
The conversation explores one of the biggest challenges in dating today: communication. Why do some people communicate with confidence while others disappear, breadcrumb, or keep you as a permanent pen pal? Marjorie continues to leave a lasting impression everywhere she goes, while Barbara opens up about feeling a little more reflective than usual and what she's learning through this season of dating. Along the way, Irina offers thoughtful perspective, and the trio answers listener questions with their signature mix of honesty, humor, and real-life experience.
 
It’s a candid look at dating after 50, communication, emotional availability, relationship patterns, and how laughter can help us navigate even the strangest dating moments.
 
Topics include: dating after 50, communication in relationships, online dating, pen pal dating, emotional availability, modern dating, dating stories, relationship advice, listener questions, dating red flags
 
The Elusive Dick offers a different perspective on dating and relationships, blending comedy with cultural commentary for women navigating love, desire, and independence later in life. Whether you're single, navigating online dating, trying to decode mixed signals, or simply looking for relatable dating stories and plenty of laughs, this podcast proves it's never too late to rewrite the rules.
 
New episodes weekly on dating, relationships, and modern love.
 
Check out Irina's website, services and supportive programs offered in person and virtually at: https://mailchi.mp/646c0e16e378/return-to-self-collective
And at https://fragrantwellness.com/
 
Irina Gubenko
Email: holisticmindhearttherapynyc@gmail.com
Phone: 914-236-0554
Therapist Profile: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/irina-gubenko-new-york-ny/1677719
IG: @holistic_mind_heart_therapy
 
Podcast Episode Disclaimer: The stories shared on this podcast are based on personal experiences. Certain details, names, identifying characteristics, timelines, and circumstances may be changed or condensed for privacy and storytelling purposes. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, is purely coincidental. This podcast reflects personal opinions and lived experiences. The content of this podcast is intended for entertainment and commentary purposes only. Stories may include composites of real experiences and may be modified to protect the privacy of individuals. No statements are intended as factual claims about any specific person.

In this episode of The Elusive Dick, Marjorie and Barbara welcome back Irina for a powerful conversation exploring the connection between the mind, body, and emotions. Together, they dive into somatic healing, emotional awareness, and why the experiences we carry often live in our bodies long after we've moved on mentally. From relationships to personal growth, the ladies explore what it really means to heal from the inside out.
 
The conversation examines how emotion is energy in motion, the role of group therapy and collective healing, and why community can be one of the most effective tools for personal transformation. Irina also shares her perspective on our connection to the moon and its cycles, why some people feel significant life changes during new moons and full moons, and how paying attention to our inner world can reveal what truly needs our attention. Together, they discuss the importance of slowing down, listening to your body, and creating space for authentic healing.
 
It’s a candid look at emotional healing, somatic practices, self-awareness, and building healthier relationships by first understanding yourself.
 
Topics include: somatic healing, emotional wellness, the body keeps score, group therapy, emotional intelligence, holistic healing, moon cycles, self-discovery, women's wellness, personal growth, relationship health
 
The Elusive Dick offers a different perspective on dating and relationships, blending comedy with cultural commentary for women navigating love, desire, and independence later in life. Whether you're single, healing after a relationship, exploring holistic wellness, or looking to build deeper connections with yourself and others, this podcast proves that the path to healthier relationships begins within.
 
New episodes weekly on dating, relationships, and modern love.
 
Check out Irina's website, services and supportive programs offered in person and virtually at: https://mailchi.mp/646c0e16e378/return-to-self-collective
And at https://fragrantwellness.com/
 
Irina Gubenko
Email: holisticmindhearttherapynyc@gmail.com
Phone: 914-236-0554
Therapist Profile: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/irina-gubenko-new-york-ny/1677719
IG: @holistic_mind_heart_therapy
 
Podcast Episode Disclaimer: The stories shared on this podcast are based on personal experiences. Certain details, names, identifying characteristics, timelines, and circumstances may be changed or condensed for privacy and storytelling purposes. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, is purely coincidental. This podcast reflects personal opinions and lived experiences. The content of this podcast is intended for entertainment and commentary purposes only. Stories may include composites of real experiences and may be modified to protect the privacy of individuals. No statements are intended as factual claims about any specific person.

In this episode of The Elusive Dick, Marjorie and Barbara catch up after a summer dating slump, sharing the latest updates on their romantic lives and the mindset shifts helping them get back out there. From new connections to familiar faces, the ladies discuss what happens when you give someone another chance, why leveling up can change your dating experience, and the unexpected twists that keep modern dating anything but predictable.
 
The conversation dives into one of the most frustrating questions in online dating: why do guys suddenly go radio silent? Marjorie and Barbara unpack ghosting, inconsistent communication, and what silence can really mean. Barbara shares what happened when she went back to the well—and why her connection with someone may have leveled up altogether. Along the way, the ladies chat about the World Cup, answer listener questions, and offer honest, funny, and relatable insights into navigating today's dating landscape.
 
It’s a candid look at dating after 50, ghosting, communication, emotional availability, and finding confidence in every stage of the dating journey.
 
Topics include: dating after 50, ghosting, why men stop texting, radio silence in dating, online dating, modern dating, communication in relationships, dating advice, emotional availability, listener questions
 
The Elusive Dick offers a different perspective on dating and relationships, blending comedy with cultural commentary for women navigating love, desire, and independence later in life. Whether you're single, navigating online dating, wondering why someone disappeared, or simply looking for real dating stories and plenty of laughs, this podcast proves it's never too late to rewrite the rules.
 
New episodes weekly on dating, relationships, and modern love.
 
Please reach out with Dating Questions and Inquiries at: theelusivedickpodcast@gmail.com
 
Follow us on Spotify, Apple Music, and everywhere you get your podcasts!
 
Podcast Episode Disclaimer: The stories shared on this podcast are based on personal experiences. Certain details, names, identifying characteristics, timelines, and circumstances may be changed or condensed for privacy and storytelling purposes. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, is purely coincidental. This podcast reflects personal opinions and lived experiences. The content of this podcast is intended for entertainment and commentary purposes only. Stories may include composites of real experiences and may be modified to protect the privacy of individuals. No statements are intended as factual claims about any specific person.

In this episode of The Elusive Dick, Marjorie and Barbara are joined by Barbara's longtime friend Mark for a thoughtful conversation that blends personal experience with professional insight into modern relationships. Together, they explore what creates lasting connection, why authenticity matters, and how our friendships and romantic relationships evolve throughout different seasons of life.
 
The conversation dives into the Five Love Languages, the famous 36 Questions That Lead to Love, and the idea that friendships naturally change over time. Mark shares his perspective on building meaningful relationships, the importance of community, and why finding your authentic self is one of the greatest gifts you can bring to both friendships and dating. Whether you're searching for a partner, strengthening an existing relationship, or investing in the people already in your life, this episode offers practical insights and plenty of heartfelt conversation.
 
It’s a candid look at modern dating, emotional connection, authentic relationships, personal growth, and why the strongest relationships begin with knowing yourself.
 
Topics include: five love languages, 36 questions to fall in love, authentic relationships, modern dating, emotional connection, healthy relationships, community, friendship, personal growth, relationship advice
 
The Elusive Dick offers a different perspective on dating and relationships, blending comedy with cultural commentary for women navigating love, desire, and independence later in life. Whether you're single, navigating online dating, strengthening your relationships, or building a deeper sense of community, this podcast proves it's never too late to create meaningful connections.
 
New episodes weekly on dating, relationships, and modern love.
 
Please reach out with Dating Questions and Inquiries at: theelusivedickpodcast@gmail.com
 
Follow us on Spotify, Apple Music, and everywhere you get your podcasts!
 
Podcast Episode Disclaimer: The stories shared on this podcast are based on personal experiences. Certain details, names, identifying characteristics, timelines, and circumstances may be changed or condensed for privacy and storytelling purposes. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, is purely coincidental. This podcast reflects personal opinions and lived experiences. The content of this podcast is intended for entertainment and commentary purposes only. Stories may include composites of real experiences and may be modified to protect the privacy of individuals. No statements are intended as factual claims about any specific person.

In this episode of The Elusive Dick, Marjorie and Barbara catch up on the latest twists in their dating lives, from a Fourth of July boat excursion on the Hudson River together to unexpected reconnections over the holiday weekend and the conversations that can change the course of a relationship. The ladies share updates on new connections, an unfortunate Times Square kiss, some daily texting updates, and why old flings have a way of resurfacing just when you think you've moved on.
 
The conversation dives into one of the biggest questions in modern dating: when is it time to have the exclusivity talk? Along the way, Marjorie and Barbara unpack "unsportsmanlike behavior" in flirting, discuss the fine line between being "intimidated yet drawn" to someone by revisit the latest Staten Island Chronicles, and ask the question nearly every dater eventually faces: what are any of us really looking for on dating apps anyway?
 
It’s a candid look at dating after 50, exclusivity, online dating, relationship expectations, and how communication, chemistry, and timing all play a role in finding meaningful connection.
 
Topics include: dating after 50, exclusivity in dating, dating apps, online dating, holiday romance, relationship expectations, emotional availability, dating communication, modern dating, dating stories
 
The Elusive Dick offers a different perspective on dating and relationships, blending comedy with cultural commentary for women navigating love, desire, and independence later in life. Whether you're single, navigating online dating, wondering when to define the relationship, or just here for the laughs, this podcast proves it's never too late to rewrite the rules.
 
New episodes weekly on dating, relationships, and modern love.
Please reach out with Dating Questions and Inquiries at: theelusivedickpodcast@gmail.com
 
Follow us on Spotify, Apple Music, and everywhere you get your podcasts!
 
Podcast Episode Disclaimer: The stories shared on this podcast are based on personal experiences. Certain details, names, identifying characteristics, timelines, and circumstances may be changed or condensed for privacy and storytelling purposes. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, is purely coincidental. This podcast reflects personal opinions and lived experiences. The content of this podcast is intended for entertainment and commentary purposes only. Stories may include composites of real experiences and may be modified to protect the privacy of individuals. No statements are intended as factual claims about any specific person.

In this episode of The Elusive Dick, Marjorie and Barbara welcome back Irina for an inspiring conversation about healing, personal growth, and why building a strong relationship with yourself is the foundation for every healthy relationship. As she launches a new women's program through La Femme Rose, Irina shares how creating spaces for connection, support, and community can help women navigate life's transitions with greater confidence and clarity.
 
The conversation explores a holistic approach to wellness, the importance of finding your way back to yourself after life's challenges, and why surrounding yourself with supportive women can be transformational. Whether you're rebuilding after a relationship, navigating a new chapter, or simply looking for a community that understands your journey, the ladies discuss how meaningful connection extends far beyond dating and into every part of life.
 
It’s a candid look at self-discovery, emotional healing, women's empowerment, and how investing in yourself creates healthier relationships with others.
 
Check out Irina's website, services and supportive programs offered in person and virtually at: https://mailchi.mp/646c0e16e378/return-to-self-collective
 
And at https://fragrantwellness.com/
 
Irina Gubenko
Email: holisticmindhearttherapynyc@gmail.com
Phone: 914-236-0554
Therapist Profile: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/irina-gubenko-new-york-ny/1677719
IG: @holistic_mind_heart_therapy
 
Topics include: women's wellness, holistic healing, self-discovery, personal growth, women's community, emotional healing, dating after 50, relationship wellness, women's empowerment, modern relationships
 
The Elusive Dick offers a different perspective on dating and relationships, blending comedy with cultural commentary for women navigating love, desire, and independence later in life. Whether you're single, dating again, healing after a relationship, or looking for a supportive community of women, this podcast proves that the most important relationship you'll ever build is the one with yourself.
 
New episodes weekly on dating, relationships, and modern love.
 
Please reach out with Dating Questions and Inquiries at: theelusivedickpodcast@gmail.com
 
Follow us on Spotify, Apple Music, and everywhere you get your podcasts!
 
Podcast Episode Disclaimer: The stories shared on this podcast are based on personal experiences. Certain details, names, identifying characteristics, timelines, and circumstances may be changed or condensed for privacy and storytelling purposes. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, is purely coincidental. This podcast reflects personal opinions and lived experiences. The content of this podcast is intended for entertainment and commentary purposes only. Stories may include composites of real experiences and may be modified to protect the privacy of individuals. No statements are intended as factual claims about any specific person.

In this episode of The Elusive Dick, Marjorie and Barbara dive into one of the biggest questions in modern dating: are you looking for lifelong partnership, or is companionship enough? The ladies explore the idea of intermittent companionship, a topic brought up online by @sincerelydivorced, the growing desire for meaningful connection without traditional relationship expectations, and how dating evolves when you're confident in who you are.
 
The conversation unpacks the difference between companionship and commitment, whether everyone truly needs to find "the one," and how your intentions shape every dating experience. Marjorie and Barbara also share stories about dating men their own age, discuss how priorities change later in life, and explore why being clear about what you want is one of the most attractive qualities you can bring into a relationship.
 
It’s a candid look at dating after 50, relationship expectations, emotional availability, and redefining what a successful relationship can look like in today's world.
 
Topics include: dating after 50, companionship vs relationship, finding the one, intentional dating, dating with purpose, emotional availability, dating men your own age, modern dating, relationship advice, online dating
 
The Elusive Dick offers a different perspective on dating and relationships, blending comedy with cultural commentary for women navigating love, desire, and independence later in life. Whether you're single, navigating online dating, dating again after divorce, or questioning what you really want from a relationship, this podcast proves it's never too late to define love on your own terms.
 
New episodes weekly on dating, relationships, and modern love.
 
Please reach out with Dating Questions and Inquiries at: theelusivedickpodcast@gmail.com
 
Follow us on Spotify, Apple Music, and everywhere you get your podcasts!
 
Podcast Episode Disclaimer: The stories shared on this podcast are based on personal experiences. Certain details, names, identifying characteristics, timelines, and circumstances may be changed or condensed for privacy and storytelling purposes. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, is purely coincidental. This podcast reflects personal opinions and lived experiences. The content of this podcast is intended for entertainment and commentary purposes only. Stories may include composites of real experiences and may be modified to protect the privacy of individuals. No statements are intended as factual claims about any specific person.

In this episode of The Elusive Dick, Marjorie and Barbara catch up on the latest adventures in their dating lives, from girls night out and a vacation to Mexico to an unexpected discovery: is there actually a nude beach in New York City's five boroughs? Along the way, the ladies share fresh dating updates, hilarious observations, and the unpredictable new strange requests.
 
The conversation dives into new romantic prospects and the latest bizarre situation to land in Barbara and Majories inbox. As always, Marjorie and Barbara mix real-life dating stories with candid conversations about confidence, curiosity, and embracing new experiences—whether you're traveling, meeting someone new, or simply trying to make sense of today's dating culture.
 
It’s a candid look at dating after 50, modern relationships, online dating, and why the best dating stories are often the ones you never saw coming.
 
Topics include: dating after 50, modern dating, girls trips, dating stories, online dating, vacation romance, dating adventures, unusual dating requests, New York City dating, relationship humor
 
The Elusive Dick offers a different perspective on dating and relationships, blending comedy with cultural commentary for women navigating love, desire, and independence later in life. Whether you're single, navigating online dating, planning your next girls' trip, or just looking for relatable dating stories and plenty of laughs, this podcast proves it's never too late to rewrite the rules.
 
New episodes weekly on dating, relationships, and modern love.
 
Please reach out with Dating Questions and Inquiries at: theelusivedickpodcast@gmail.com
Follow us on Spotify, Apple Music, and everywhere you get your podcasts!
 
Podcast Episode Disclaimer: The stories shared on this podcast are based on personal experiences. Certain details, names, identifying characteristics, timelines, and circumstances may be changed or condensed for privacy and storytelling purposes. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, is purely coincidental. This podcast reflects personal opinions and lived experiences. The content of this podcast is intended for entertainment and commentary purposes only. Stories may include composites of real experiences and may be modified to protect the privacy of individuals. No statements are intended as factual claims about any specific person.

In this episode of The Elusive Dick, Marjorie and Barbara are joined by guests Tarren and Sydney, two women who traded life in Texas and Oklahoma for New York City and discovered that dating in a big city can be a completely different experience. From meeting partners in unconventional ways to navigating the challenges of building relationships in a fast-paced environment, the conversation explores the surprising realities of modern dating and how geography can shape your love life.
 
The ladies dive into ghosting, drama, how dating changed during 2020, and why having more options doesn't always make dating easier. Tarren and Sydney share stories from their dating journeys, including a firsthand look at the Million Dollar Matchmaker experience and what they learned about attraction, compatibility, and relationship expectations. Along the way, Marjorie once again earns her reputation as the everyones unofficial dating fairy godmother, helping people see possibilities where they least expect them.
 
It’s a candid look at dating in New York City, ghosting, matchmaking, and the unexpected ways people find connection in today's dating world.
 
Topics include: modern dating, ghosting, dating in New York City, matchmaking, Million Dollar Matchmaker, online dating, dating advice, meeting people organically, dating in 2020, relationship expectations
 
The Elusive Dick offers a different perspective on dating and relationships, blending comedy with cultural commentary for women navigating love, desire, and independence later in life. Whether you're single, navigating online dating, curious about matchmaking, or trying to figure out why dating in a big city feels so complicated, this podcast proves it's never too late to rewrite the rules.
 
New episodes weekly on dating, relationships, and modern love.
 
Please reach out with Dating Questions and Inquiries at: theelusivedickpodcast@gmail.com
 
Follow us on Spotify, Apple Music, and everywhere you get your podcasts!
 
Podcast Episode Disclaimer: The stories shared on this podcast are based on personal experiences. Certain details, names, identifying characteristics, timelines, and circumstances may be changed or condensed for privacy and storytelling purposes. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, is purely coincidental. This podcast reflects personal opinions and lived experiences. The content of this podcast is intended for entertainment and commentary purposes only. Stories may include composites of real experiences and may be modified to protect the privacy of individuals. No statements are intended as factual claims about any specific person.

In this episode of The Elusive Dick, Marjorie and Barbara hand out their highly anticipated dating superlatives, revealing the ones who are taking the lead of the season's biggest categories—including Most Elusive, Most Emotionally Available, and the coveted Most Misfit Toy award.
 
The conversation takes a turn when Marjorie shares the most outrageous request she's ever received from a date (a job recommendation?!), sparking a discussion about boundaries, expectations, and the increasingly strange realities of modern dating. The ladies also dive into the topic of undercover narcissists—the subtle behaviors, warning signs, and red flags that can be easy to miss until you're already invested. Meanwhile, Barbara takes one for the team in the name of research, leading to plenty of laughs and a few hard-earned insights. Looking back on months of dating after 50, the ladies revisit some of the most memorable characters, unexpected connections, and relationship lessons from their modern dating adventures.
 
It’s a candid look at dating red flags, emotional availability, narcissistic behavior, and how to navigate relationships with confidence, humor, and self-awareness.
 
Topics include: dating after 50, narcissists in dating, emotional availability, dating red flags, modern dating, online dating, relationship boundaries, emotionally unavailable partners, dating stories, relationship advice
 
The Elusive Dick offers a different perspective on dating and relationships, blending comedy with cultural commentary for women navigating love, desire, and independence later in life. Whether you're single, navigating online dating, dating again after divorce, or trying to spot the difference between confidence and narcissism, this podcast proves it's never too late to rewrite the rules. New episodes weekly on dating, relationships, and modern love.
 
Please reach out with Dating Questions and Inquiries at: theelusivedickpodcast@gmail.com
 
Follow us on Spotify, Apple Music, and everywhere you get your podcasts!
 
Podcast Episode Disclaimer: The stories shared on this podcast are based on personal experiences. Certain details, names, identifying characteristics, timelines, and circumstances may be changed or condensed for privacy and storytelling purposes. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, is purely coincidental. This podcast reflects personal opinions and lived experiences. The content of this podcast is intended for entertainment and commentary purposes only. Stories may include composites of real experiences and may be modified to protect the privacy of individuals. No statements are intended as factual claims about any specific person.